My problem is niether of those statements are true, and I know for a fact my friend's gf knows that. I'm just not interested in dating her.
Why are you so disinterested?
2 reasons.
1. She was sorta annoying, I just didn't really get a good vibe from her.
2. She just wasn't very attractive. I feel like a douche for this one, but she just wasn't cute imo.
Look, you seem like a really nice girl but I just don't really feel any spark of attraction and I think we're into different things... I don't really see this going anywhere. I hope you understand, im not trying to be a dick but I don't want to waste your time leading you on.
1. She was sorta annoying, I just didn't really get a good vibe from her.
2. She just wasn't very attractive. I feel like a douche for this one, but she just wasn't cute imo.
That's reasonable
This.
Just be straight up man. You're a nice girl, but I ain't in a place for a relationship right now. Ezpz fam. Legit I wish people would treat me with that respect. I'm 27 and I legit got ghosted by someone again.
"hey, I know it took a lot of courage to ask me this, and I respect that a lot. But I just don't feel this going anywhere. I hope you understand I'm not trying to be mean. You seem like a really nice girl, and I just don't want to waste your time leading you on." ---- this was a few hours ago, and I haven't heard anything from either her or my friends GF, who did give her my # so I guess no news is good news...
Tmonster2301 wrote:
"No point of putting up with it if she isn't hot " - some horrible person definitely not me.
funny thing is she isn't un-attractive which makes me feel less bad about rejecting her, and I mean I'm no catch, on a good day with a solid pump I'm maybe a 7.
"hey, I know it took a lot of courage to ask me this, and I respect that a lot. But I just don't feel this going anywhere. I hope you understand I'm not trying to be mean. You seem like a really nice girl, and I just don't want to waste your time leading you on." ---- this was a few hours ago, and I haven't heard anything from either her or my friends GF, who did give her my # so I guess no news is good news...
Solid... she's got no reason to get pissy about that. Well played.
"No point of putting up with it if she isn't hot " - some horrible person definitely not me.
No point putting up with if it she is hot either...
mountainbiker929 wrote:
I said something like;
"hey, I know it took a lot of courage to ask me this, and I respect that a lot. But I just don't feel this going anywhere. I hope you understand I'm not trying to be mean. You seem like a really nice girl, and I just don't want to waste your time leading you on." ---- this was a few hours ago, and I haven't heard anything from either her or my friends GF, who did give her my # so I guess no news is good news...
Perfectly played. Honest and respectful. If they don't appreciate it now they will later in life.