Okay, so I've been talking with this girl, not seriously or anything, at school and things are going somewhat smoothly. I have a thing for her and I want to make another step forward; however, hoco is in two weeks and I have zero intentions of going, hell, I don't even know that my parents would let me go. I feel like if I take the step to early I could f*ck it up by not asking her to hoco. Should I wait until after hoco? Am I overthinking this?
Okay, so I've been talking with this girl, not seriously or anything, at school and things are going somewhat smoothly. I have a thing for her and I want to make another step forward; however, hoco is in two weeks and I have zero intentions of going, hell, I don't even know that my parents would let me go. I feel like if I take the step to early I could f*ck it up by not asking her to hoco. Should I wait until after hoco? Am I overthinking this?
Definitely overthinking it...
I'm assuming hoco is homecoming? Not sure why you wouldn't want to go or why your parents wouldn't let you go but that's really not a big thing in terms of just being straight about it up front and saying you don't want to go... could even plan your own thing that night with her if she's not into it and also doesn't intend to go. Honestly, the only way I see that causing an issue is if either you say you don't want to go and then get caught going with someone else, or if she goes with someone else and that creates issues for you.
Rule #2 when it comes to women is don't put shit off... it applies generally to everything, don't put off asking a woman out and don't put off doing some stupid shit she wants you to do after you've been together for years and everything in between.
Okay, so I've been talking with this girl, not seriously or anything, at school and things are going somewhat smoothly. I have a thing for her and I want to make another step forward; however, hoco is in two weeks and I have zero intentions of going, hell, I don't even know that my parents would let me go. I feel like if I take the step to early I could f*ck it up by not asking her to hoco. Should I wait until after hoco? Am I overthinking this?
Just ask her. If she's not going with anyone else and she likes talking to you then chances are that she'd go with you. However, it's easy to give advice over the internet... I was a nervous wreck before asking mine to homecoming.
Okay, so I've been talking with this girl, not seriously or anything, at school and things are going somewhat smoothly. I have a thing for her and I want to make another step forward; however, hoco is in two weeks and I have zero intentions of going, hell, I don't even know that my parents would let me go. I feel like if I take the step to early I could f*ck it up by not asking her to hoco. Should I wait until after hoco? Am I overthinking this?
Just ask her. If she's not going with anyone else and she likes talking to you then chances are that she'd go with you. However, it's easy to give advice over the internet... I was a nervous wreck before asking mine to homecoming.
Maybe I wasn't clear, I don't want to go to homecoming, it almost always is a shitshow, and I don't feel like spending $140 on tickets. But I do think I'm gonna at least take a step forward this week.
Okay, so I've been talking with this girl, not seriously or anything, at school and things are going somewhat smoothly. I have a thing for her and I want to make another step forward; however, hoco is in two weeks and I have zero intentions of going, hell, I don't even know that my parents would let me go. I feel like if I take the step to early I could f*ck it up by not asking her to hoco. Should I wait until after hoco? Am I overthinking this?
Just ask her. If she's not going with anyone else and she likes talking to you then chances are that she'd go with you. However, it's easy to give advice over the internet... I was a nervous wreck before asking mine to homecoming.
Maybe I wasn't clear, I don't want to go to homecoming, it almost always is a shitshow, and I don't feel like spending $140 on tickets. But I do think I'm gonna at least take a step forward this week.
Do it!
...and they charge for an event thats supposeed to be for YOU?
Okay, so I've been talking with this girl, not seriously or anything, at school and things are going somewhat smoothly. I have a thing for her and I want to make another step forward; however, hoco is in two weeks and I have zero intentions of going, hell, I don't even know that my parents would let me go. I feel like if I take the step to early I could f*ck it up by not asking her to hoco. Should I wait until after hoco? Am I overthinking this?
Just ask her. If she's not going with anyone else and she likes talking to you then chances are that she'd go with you. However, it's easy to give advice over the internet... I was a nervous wreck before asking mine to homecoming.
Maybe I wasn't clear, I don't want to go to homecoming, it almost always is a shitshow, and I don't feel like spending $140 on tickets. But I do think I'm gonna at least take a step forward this week.
Ahh, whatever you do, id just go for it... BUT HOLY SHIT $140!! Mine is only 15 bucks a person and with a ASB its 10