Tip #1: Equipment Get him a cheap hardtail, or he can use your old bike. He probably won’t notice if the brakes and gears don’t work, if it has a slow leak, or if it's a couple sizes too small, so don’t worry if the bike you lend him is a bit janky and one that you would never be caught dead on.
As for apparel, whatever you have lying around is fine. He'll feel much more confident shredding in your hand-me-downs.
Tip #2: ExpectationsYou should expect to ride your regular speed on your regular trails. Don’t adjust your expectations.
Tip #3: Trails Don’t worry about fundamentals like braking or shiftingbefore you start. He can learn them on your favourite black diamond trail!
Tip #4: Speed Don’t wait for him, or if you do, make a pointed remark about how long you've been waiting. It’s frustrating and discouraging to be waited for all the time, and his defiant rage will ensure that he learns quickly. He'll also be ever so impressed with your alpha female abilities.
Tip #5: Advice Since you're a good mountain biker, you are probably an excellent teacher. Tell him things are easy, and to lay off the brakes. It's good to give a lot of pointers "look ahead, don't brake too hard with your front brake, feet parallel to the ground" all at once before you drop in to confuse him.
Tip #6: Group Rides Your boyfriend will be a lot more comfortable if you bring him out on a big group ride with all of your friends. For beginners, it's great to feel like you're slower than everyone and holding up the group. He'll be zipping around in no time since the pressure of keeping up will really get to him!
With these tips, you're bound to keep the couples therapy to a minimum.
Good luck!
40 years later....it still works.
Number two: watch him having the time of his live
Number three: after buying him a real bike, let him buy you "some" new parts (just "some" like an EAGLE drivetrain or a Fox 40 Kashima)
Don’t forget to direct your man to the article on how to pump a tyre and lock his bike effectively.
mtb4her.com/so-you-wanna-teach-your-girlfriend-or-wife-how-to-mountain-bike
www.youtube.com/watch?v=EroQ-friE7o
Maybe I just need to quit trying. Lol seems to be the way that works in marriage anyhow. Lol
Cheers