well tittle says it all, my first gf broke up with me after 3 years im now in first year university and im far away from home. im feeling pretty down and i need to c this in a clear view. i know its my first relationship and thats probly why it hurts so much.
heres the story she claimed she had no time for me. so she told me to hit the road more or less. f*ckin sucks.
It sucks and all, but if its hitting you bad enough to make threads on PB you need to be on the phone with a counselor or friend. Sorry to tell you that, but it definitely indicates its hitting a little deeper than it should.
its just like doin a backflip... things seem to be goin great, then you find yourself upside down and thinkin your gunna die, and then you land it and you feel better than ever
I feel for you dude. I just started college and I've liked, been liked..gone on dates but I still haven't met my ''soul mate'' as of yet.
I'm fine with this, and I have been able to accept rejection. You see, women are complicated, so much so that it is absolutely useless to ponder about what you could have done better, what you did rong ect. In this relationship, you were yourself and if things didn't work out it means you two weren't the right match.
I'm going through a period in my life where I'm getting into the ''dating game'' I find it to be both gratifying and nerve racking. Everytime I meet someone new there are always complications. I've learned to just let go and always look ahead to the future and forget about the past. A trick I use to stay motivated is to never get deadset on one girl. If things don't work out you are bound to find someone who cares for you perhaps even more than your X.
So dude, the trick is stay positive. Think about the good things that are going on in your life(like family, friends and sports) Try to keep busy and look foward to success in new relationships.
Seriously, go out party, drink, and get laid!!!! You're at a university after all. Live your life, be free. Enjoy all the different adventures you come across. Believe me, I've been married for 6 years! I cherish all my adventures.
Try to keep busy and focus on your school work. I would also try to spend as much time with your friends as you can. It should help fill the space she held.
But as has been said, if you hurt bad enough to post on pinkbike about it, I would call up a friend or talk to one in person, or maybe even see a counselor. I tried to tough it out last year instead of talking to someone and getting advice, and needless to say, I'm no longer going to that school.
i dated a chick for two years, she broke up with me same reason, guess what i got over it, not meaning to sound harsh but dude there are so many fish in the sea it is crazy. she broke up with me in aug and you know, im dating a new girl now and i really like her, i mean alot, and we havnt known eachother long,
you will find someone because there is someone looking for you too man.
I feel for you dude. I just started college and I've liked, been liked..gone on dates but I still haven't met my ''soul mate'' as of yet.
I'm fine with this, and I have been able to accept rejection. You see, women are complicated, so much so that it is absolutely useless to ponder about what you could have done better, what you did rong ect. In this relationship, you were yourself and if things didn't work out it means you two weren't the right match.
I'm going through a period in my life where I'm getting into the ''dating game'' I find it to be both gratifying and nerve racking. Everytime I meet someone new there are always complications. I've learned to just let go and always look ahead to the future and forget about the past. A trick I use to stay motivated is to never get deadset on one girl. If things don't work out you are bound to find someone who cares for you perhaps even more than your X.
So dude, the trick is stay positive. Think about the good things that are going on in your life(like family, friends and sports) Try to keep busy and look foward to success in new relationships.
Good luck!
Eric--
f*ck man thanks alot that definitly makes me feel not alone.