and I'm just messing around dude. I know how much this stuff can hurt, can be confusing, agonizing, create headspins, and all that shit. I genuinely mean no disrespect to you by popping jokes at a time like this.
I'm just funnin' hoping you keep your chin up and looking towards the bright side is all man. You seem like a chick magnet man, so....f**k all the dumb shit. Go do you boss (and not with that finger )
I realise now that there's more background than what she's showing and for whatever reason she decided to cut me off sexually and go with this dude.
Now her actual.motives I don't know, maybe she wants to have me as a long term "investment" she wants to go through her whore phase and hope that I'll receive her with my arms open? I don't know and honestly I don't care.
Maybe distance plays a huge factor as well
Anyways I gotta understand that she doesn't wanna get physically involved with me anymore so yeah cutting her off is the best
"I realise now that there's more background than what she's showing "
@jespinal. It usually is with women. Nothing is ever simple. So go out. Get hammered if ya need it. Just make sure you have a bro that has your back around. Cause we men are a simple lot. We tend to make rather poor decisions in these situations. I speak from a well of personal experience here. With making bad decisions that is. I'll try to not sound like a bitter middle aged man here. Life's to short for "garden tools" like that. If they seek attention elsewhere, walk away and don't look back( unless miniature hoomans are involved. Then fight like hell for joint custody)
And listen to the "shit music" you would never even be caught dead listening to.
And use your frustrations and anger on the trails. They never complain or run away with another another dude. The trails are always there for ya.
"I realise now that there's more background than what she's showing "
@jespinal. It usually is with women. Nothing is ever simple. So go out. Get hammered if ya need it. Just make sure you have a bro that has your back around. Cause we men are a simple lot. We tend to make rather poor decisions in these situations. I speak from a well of personal experience here. With making bad decisions that is. I'll try to not sound like a bitter middle aged man here. Life's to short for "garden tools" like that. If they seek attention elsewhere, walk away and don't look back( unless miniature hoomans are involved. Then fight like hell for joint custody)
And listen to the "shit music" you would never even be caught dead listening to.
And use your frustrations and anger on the trails. They never complain or run away with another another dude. The trails are always there for ya.
So, last thursday I was texting this girl, we'll call her "A", I told her how I felt and how I crashed emotionally yadda yadda, she told me that she only wants us to be good friends again and that she loves me very much and that we'll talk soon because she misses me.
Let's introduce girl "B", B is a super close friend of mine, we've helped each other a lot through the years emotionally and B met A through me, now keep in mind B and I go way back, so of course when she finds out what A did, she's pissed off.
Now 5 days later out of the blue A texts me, I think "oh god she wants to know how I'm doing, but I'm still somewhat a mess, anyway let's pull through". I open the text and all she wants to know is if I've spoken to B about her because she's not texting her back.
That's all she wanted to know, she didn't wanna know if I was doing good, nothing.