im using a diatech leaver (one that doesnt need u to take your grips og abikeco linear and shimano xt v-brake with standard pads on my dmr and i cant fault it yet, feels superb
try to get your hand on some LX or XT v-brakes(they are the same) those are the best vee I've ever had... avid makes some great levers(loads of adjustement and strong IMO)
trust you cant beat an xtr lever. mines like new and ive had it 2 years
and aparently shimano brakes are noisy.. wat i heard thats why i got the avid
never had or tried the xtr lever so I can't say anything on that, probably just as good as the best avid lever... Shimano brakes are not noisy at all. if you got shitty pads then like any other Vee they will be noisy...
running an Odyssey bmx brake lever on a mountain bike v-brake doesn't work very well, as the Odyssey lever's "cable throw" is designed for a BMX brake (e.g. Dia Compe Hombre / 990 / Fly) which requires substantially less leverage to operate than any mountain bike V-brake
modulation gets all screwed up when running BMX and MTB brake parts together...
the best v-brake levers are Shimano XTR or Avid (with adjustable pad contact), the Avid FR-5 is dirt cheap (about £15 pair) and works great
by using a mountain bike specific lever, you will get proper modulation and the ability to lock-up your brake when required