Have you ever seen a stranger and all of a sudden get flooded with a depressed feeling? You think to yourself, “Man, they must have a boring life.” Then usually feel a little guilty for judging like that, for all you know they have a totally good time.
But it is always in moments like these when I feel the most grateful for my own lifestyle. I live the life I do because of a long string of opportunities that were presented to me which I took advantage of that have allowed me the time and opportunity to pursue a dream.
Firstly, I was raised by a family that granted me freedom and encouraged creativity, letting me embrace my surroundings of the outdoors comfortably. After finding mountain biking as my true passion I was then given the chance to work with Shaums March, who played a big role in developing my riding and pointing me in the right directions when it came to dealing within the industry. He taught me from both his positive and negative experiences which allowed me to start and create my image within the business. From this, I learned to independently connect and network and I now have a list of amazing sponsors who are helping make it possible for me to continue my pursuit. Every time I go to a race or out to ride I am constantly learning from my competitors and surroundings. Stemming from these few examples I am in return continuously given opportunities to move forward and progress. I’m a big fan of the author Malcolm Gladwell, and this quote stuck with me,
| Success is the result of what sociologists like to call 'accumulative advantage' - Malcolm Gladwell, Outliers |
I’m not writing this to brag about how great my life is, and I hope I don’t sound too ‘preachy’. I’m also not saying it’s been based off luck either, I have worked very hard for what I have and what I do, and I have a long, long road still in front of me in order to reach my goals. Both myself and my family have had to make sacrifices and sometimes we both get tired. But no matter what the trials or tribulations are, you get up the next day and realize there is nothing else at this time you’d rather be doing.
So from my perspective, opportunity is what separates us from success and mediocracy. I realize not everyone is given positive opportunities through-out their lives, and factors like dedication and passion play a large role. But it all starts when you get that chance to exercise your passion and focus your energy. So when you do, apply yourself and make it worthwhile. Don’t let your days just slide by without doing something to help yourself.
Perhaps it was from hearing too many excuses or complaints in lift lines, on forums and in coffee shops etc., but thank-you Pinkbike.com for letting me rant and talk about things from my perspective. Remember, nobody likes someone that complains, but makes no change!
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Whats being seen here is real... That is what scares people.. Thier is something being done in the real world with out much complaining.. At the end of it all, she will have lived a life.. a life she was suppose to live with no excuses to anyone... And that can create great jealously in others.. As this indicates that the person involved with their life is ultimately responsible for failing and not learning how to get up... Its being suggested here that success is " WillingNess", nothing more... and that hurts for the rest of us that have used " victim" as an excuse not to go forward..
Im allot like her.. the creative development in the outdoors means so much to me... I haven't developed that at any range of significance as she has... This is making me curious.........
Is it hypocritical of me to hate haters?
When a person has stretched themselves to the edge of their limits, there is no reason not to be proud when you find your limits, and push them out just a bit. It's called an accomplishment. Testing your boundaries is a form of personal exploration and development. Most haters hate because they sit inside a comfortable cage, to comfortable to escape and angry at themselves for not trying, lashing out at others who dare to try and escape from their own personal cages.
An article politely hating on haters who hate on other people on the internet. What?
Bottom line is we can all have the passion & can put in the commitment but not all of us have the gift of talent which allows us to become pro riders & when some of those bitter ones out there start dissing riders who have the whole package it gets me pissed off as I've put in hard work & have had the passion for decades but never quite had the pure talent to go pro & once I accepted that my riding & life got a whole lot better.
I really loved what Aaron Gwin said: "when bikes are all your life, this life is over"
and if you decide to react to my 'lecture', no problem, for me anyway; i have paid my dues and could for the most part care less about getting dissed but just thought i could put a positive spin on all the verbal vomit expressed towards Mirandas inspired story. think i will head over to the Shore for a rain ride - beats this shit including my own. peace.